I grew up with you
Your ring meant hours
Of happy chatting
Making plans
Confiding upsets
Of connecting with my friends.
I grew strong with you
My hearing made acute
Straining for nuances
My jaws made firmer
Laughing and talking.
I grew wary of you
Never dreamt you could turn foe
After years of constant touch.
When I connect with my friend
Who else are you letting in?
Aileen Lau Guek Lin
6 November 1992